I find these days that I am reading several blogs
where life events have become particularly hard on
the blog author.
It is amazing to me to find that I care so much about all
my bloggy friends even though I have known them
such a short time and have never met them in person.
I am sad for my friends who are struggling and they are
constantly in my thoughts and prayers.
That said, as I was leaving a comment on one of these
blogs the other day, I noticed the comment above mine said
something that weighed heavily on me all weekend.
"Let me know specifically what to pray for."
(emphasis mine)
At first I couldn't really put my finger on exactly what
it was about that statement that bothered me, but after
thinking about it and the blog it was left on, I realized
what my issue was.
The author of this particular blog has given no details
of the struggle she is going through in her life right now.
She has just let us know, specifically, that these are very
dark, hard times for her.
I don't think anyone should have to disclose anymore
information than that for us to be able to pray for them.
We know she is hurting, we know she is in need, and that
is all we need to know, specifically.
We serve a wonderful God who loves all His creation
and when we pray to Him on someone elses behalf,
He knows exactly what they need. Specifically.
Sometimes I think we use the excuse of praying for
someone to try and get more details than they are
willing or ready to share.
As in, "If you'll let me know what's going on, specifically,
I'll know more specifically what to pray for."
And I think, specifically, that it's the wrong way
to go about it.
Will you not pray for them if they don't let you in
on the specifics? And are you not putting God in a
tiny box?
Does any of that make sense or am I overreacting?
TTFN,